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Being normal in this world is very very important. It applies to all kind of job you do. Let's say a news reporter is doing a live reporting and his/her state is not normal or not feeling comfotable or not confident what he/she is going to tell. The report will never come-up as a good report. it will neither be noticed nor be appreciated. You can see reporting an experienced reporter. The report will sound good to you. One difference an experience reporter is doing good is he/she is able to maintain the normal state.
Similarly if you are talking to a client you must be normal. You must be comfotable. You shouldn't be too excited or too hopeless. Either of these two may change your state from normal to exteame state. Offcourse you may not see a desirable results of your efforts.
How to be normal?
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What you wanted to be? What you have expected from your life? What you need? - Everything should be normal. Say Ravana - he tried to become most powerfull person of this world. Left his normal state and went into exteream state. Did world appreciated. Say - Rama, he had the potetial to fight against any odds. He had to potential to be an ideal king. Still he lived a normal life.
Now take a slave - he/she will have lost their ego. They don't had their own designity. They would've forgot how to get anger, how to get a fun, how to enjoy. This is again a extreame condition - the extreame low state. Again it is not a normal state.
If you are not happy when you need to be happy, if you are not showing anger when you really feel angry (unless u r a doing ur job as a professional. In this case u have control on ur emotions. this is a normal state) then it's not a normal state. Either you are in trouble or you will be in such situation very soon. You may not have comfort feeling.
Look at your family - when you feel hapy do you not enjoy? - yes. When you are angry at your brother - do you not show it up immediately? - yes. when you are not liking something - do you not tell to your parents without any hesitation? - yes. They may revert back on you but you still fight with them with your points. When you go out with your friends - you get fun, you may fight, you may help others, you may ask for a help, you may speak good/bad about some one else. These all are characteristics of normal state of your mind.
If there is any deviation (some times controled deviation is acceptable) you better try to fix it early and come to a normal state.
Person A wanted to get a good name. He will be helping everyone in his locality. People used to come to him and ask for a help without hesitation. He will do so even if he will be in trouble doing so. People will apprecite him.
What you say - he is a normal person?
Before an answer, le's see here -
Look at his family. One of his family member need some help from him but person A can't becoz e is busy helping one of the person souted for a help. Obviously he has reolved the problem of the person but still his family is in trouble.
Person A is not telling No when he really should say it for the sake of his family members. He is not giving priority to his family. The family is getting lees priority which is again not a normal state of mind.
In the school or colleges, i have seen many students moving behind leaders of student association with feeling that they are doing great. Tell me - what is a student is supposed to do in college/university? His primary job is to study well and get a good education. The students who are moving whole day behind the leader are doing so? no- the state of their mind is not normal. They are deviating from their normal job/duty. However its worth to tell that the leaders of student union are in normal state since they are supposed to do so.
People go to temple/mosk/girijaghar/church to get a darshan of god.
Better discuss like this - If district magistrate will stand before you to talk to talk to you only and other people may not be there around you, How will you feel? say chief minister of you state is coming to talk to you - how will you behave? May be you have a chance to spend a day with a movie star - what will be your body language while being with him/her? Let's say the president of your country is going to spend his/her 5 mnts exclusively with you, how will you be feeling before and during this 5 mnts? May be world bank president will comr to do a hand shake with - where your eyes will be during the hand shake? will you be able to maintain a good eye contact?
Tell me if you can't be in a normal state in above scenrio how will you face the god if he will come in front of you when you have gone to your holy place for a darshan?
If your mind is not maintaining a normal state - if some one wanted to put pressure on you, you will easily come under pressure and do some mistake. If someone wanted to do their work with your help, they will easily make you happy and you will be doing it without thinking any further consequences. This may harm you or people associted to you in future.
If normal person is put up in adverse condition, he/she will always try to move towards a normal state. If a normal person finds an exciting event, he/she will be coming to normal earlier than any one else and start thinking for next step.
See the bow, its shape is normal even if it has high potential to protect its owner. Why the extremist leaders are doing -they are successfully changing the people having unstable mind-set into extreame state and using them to acomplish terrorism in the world.
Complain (too much/not at all both are not an example of normal scenario)
